One of the biggest red flags that you may be in a relationship with a narcissist is that you have an ever growing list of things you aren't allowed to do. Either because he has directly told you aren't allowed to do those things, or because you doing those things...read more
Fuck Boys: Where the fear of intimacy meets the need for validation. As a matchmaker, and a woman, I have come across many so called "fuck boys." But what is a fuck boy? My definition is "a man who craves your validation, but fears intimacy with you." Some people...read more
Have you read 1984 or Brave New World? Something that caught my attention as a matchmaker is in both of these dystopian realities, romantic love is illegal. What is so scary about love to Those Who Seek to Control that both Orwell & Huxley made it major plot...read more
In the matchmaking world, dating apps are definitely vilified. I get it. Dating apps can be dangerous. And they can be a massive waste of time. Plus, some people are just too sensitive to deal with the exposure and rejections. So, yeah, there are a lot of downsides to...read more
I am super excited to share this interview with my matchmaker friend and colleague, Justine! Like many of us, Justine was saddled down with 66k in debt after finishing her Master's. Too many of us end up in debt after finishing school with no idea how we are going to...read more
When I was introduced to Alexis Smart Flower Remedies (through the Expanded Podcast with Lacy Philips), I have to admit, I was intrigued, but skeptical. The idea that consuming a flower essence could unravel years of trauma was definitely appealing to me. At the time...read more
Have you ever wanted to talk to an ex after a breakup to get "closure?" I've heard a lot of women say this, and while I don't believe you should rely on another person for closure, speaking to an ex (after much healing and time apart) can be helpful in your own...read more
Is becoming an expat or digital nomad the best thing you'll do for your personal growth and career development? Probably! Does that mean it's easy? No, why would it? Travel pushes you far outside your comfort zone, that's how it forces you to grow. Living abroad as a...read more
The truth is, more women than I would like to admit are recovering from an emotionally abusive relationship. Sadly, some of these women don't even know their relationship was abusive. Too many women are left with the emotional wounds of abuse and PTSD, but don't...read more
Here are some scary facts for you. Autoimmune disease is on the rise, especially among women, and more than 50% of Americans are diabetic or pre-diabetic. Depression and mental illness are epidemic. And for too many women, our hormones are a hot mess of imbalance. The...read more
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