Have You Been Ghosted? 

Let’s find out why. 

Sooo… things were going great. Maybe you just met each other’s families, went on your first vacation, even exchanged I love yous. Or maybe it was a newer relationship, but your first promising prospect in a very long time. You were on cloud-nine, when suddenly… they ghosted. They won’t answer your texts to give you an explanation, you’re heartbroken, and you feel like you’re living in an episode of the Twilight Zone. All you want is to figure out why they ghosted.

You want closure but how do you get it when they won’t talk to you? You want to find your partner, but you don’t ever want to go through the experience of being cut out cold again. 

Introducing the Post-Ghost Autopsy

I designed these sessions as a safe landing space for people who were just ghosted, are in shock, and have no idea what happened. The truth is, being ghosted can be traumatizing and you should treat it as a trauma, by addressing these issues head on so you can get closure & let yourself heal, rather than letting your love life turn into a festering wound. 

In these sessions we will perform an autopsy on your relationship or situationship. A real, in depth post mortem to figure out what went wrong, what traumas you were both bringing into the relationship that allowed for things to get derailed & pinpoint redflags so you never miss them again. You will receive a full education on attachment styles, narcissism, self worth & dating culture to make sure this NEVER happens again.

At the end of the day, we can’t control anyone else’s behavior. But we can control our behavior, our energy, and what we attract into our lives. In 1-3 sessions we will get you on track towards healing and changing your dating patterns. Instead of feeling like you are spiraling and like your dating destiny is totally out of your control, you will walk away feeling empowered, educated, and ready to attract your soulmate. 

Here’s what we’re going to do together…

Drawing from my knowledge as a matchmaker as well as extensive research into narcissism, attachment styles & emotional trauma, we are going to:

-Pinpoint what went wrong & when

-Figure out why they ghosted

-Identify redflags

-Learn to identify emotionally unavailable candidates before you even match with them

-Heal the shock and trauma of being ghosted

-Close the door on the ghoster so they can’t come back into your life

-Learn the tools to manifest love

-And so much more

What you should know…

I only work with a limited number of clients at a time. You will be receiving all of my knowledge from my experience as a matchmaker, dating coach, narcissistic abuse survivor, energy healer, and manifestation expert. This experience is an autopsy on your last relationship as well as establishing a path forward. My goal is not for you to become dependent on coaching, but to give your support to process the trauma & get you started on your own path. You are your own best healer, not me. We can’t control the behavior of others. I will not teach you manipulation tactics or how to get them back. This is an empowering experience. While acknowledging your traumas, we will not get stuck in victim consciousness. 

After each session I will send you an email with any recommendations. I may recommend books, online courses, working with a therapist, etc… 

I am not a licensed clinical therapist. If you are experiencing extreme trauma or depression please do this work alongside a therapist or other mental health professional. If you are experiencing feelings of psychosis or having thoughts of hurting yourself or others, please contact the National Suicide Hotline instead:  1-800-273-8255 

Issy Living believes that dating is suppose to be easy, fun, and a never ending adventure.